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What's Stopping Your Personal Transformation? The 3 Incognito Killers, EXPOSED!, by: Amariyah Speaks

  • Writer: amariyahspeaks
    amariyahspeaks
  • Jan 26, 2023
  • 2 min read

You were inspired. You set an intention. But somewhere along the way… the fire fizzled. You’re not alone. Real transformation often dies at the hands of hidden fears we never saw coming.


If you're on the path of growth, it's vital to recognize the internal blockers that can silently sabotage your progress before it even begins.


Today, let’s expose the 3 most common (and sneaky) killers of transformation—so you can meet them with awareness and win your breakthrough back.


🔎 The 3 Hidden Transformation Killers:

1. The Fear of Change

“I want something new… but I’m terrified to leave the old.”
  • The brain naturally resists change because it brings uncertainty.

  • Transformation requires you to walk into the unknown—and the ego hates not being in control.

  • This fear doesn’t just whisper doubts... it freezes your forward movement.

🌀 The Result? Your desire for change gets smothered by anxiety, and nothing changes.


2. The Fear of Judgment & Rejection

“What will they think if I start living differently?”
  • This fear keeps you small, silent, and stuck in the roles others assigned to you.

  • It threatens your core need for connection and approval.

  • You begin negotiating your growth for the comfort of fitting in.

🌀 The Result? You shrink into a life that feels safe—but not true and authentic. Potential dies in the box others built for you.


3. The Fear of Success (and its shadow: Fear of Failure)

“What if I actually get everything I want… and blow it?”
  • Success brings responsibility—and that can feel terrifying.

  • Deep down, many of us don’t trust ourselves to handle the weight of our own greatness.

  • The fear of what comes after success can stop us before we ever begin.

🌀 The Result? You abandon the path, not because you can’t—but because you’re afraid of who you’d have to become to maintain it.


🌱 Don’t Let Fear Write Your Story.

If you’re serious about transformation, here’s your invitation:

  • Expect fear to rise—but don’t make it the boss.

  • Name your resistance, so it can’t hide.

  • Create a plan that includes mindset work, support, and grace.


Transformation is possible. But it must be chosen, protected, and nurtured on purpose.


💌 From my heart to yours: Don’t let the dream die in the valley of fear. Rise anyway. Trust the process. And walk yourself home to who you really are.

Here’s to your healing, rising, and becoming.


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