“You Can’t Hate Your Life and Heal It Too” | By: Amariyah Speaks | Empowered Life Now
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ACIM Lesson 195 – “Love is the way I walk in gratitude.”
😤 Let’s talk real.
You say you want healing…
You say you want peace…
But every time you complain about your life, your job, your body, your situation—you’re sending out a frequency that says:
“I don’t want this. I hate this. I resist this.”
Whether you’re saying it out loud or simmering in silence, the message is the same: I reject this moment.
And you cannot reject your life while trying to heal your life at the same time.
💭 Complaining is a prayer for what you don’t want.
Every complaint is an energetic withdrawal from Love. It’s a declaration of lack, not gratitude. It’s rooted in fear, not truth.
ACIM reminds us in Lesson 195: “Love is the way I walk in gratitude.”
Translation?
If you're not walking in love, you're not walking in gratitude.
And if you’re not walking in gratitude, you’re not walking in your healing.
🧠Negativity Bias
From a psychological lens, your brain is wired to scan for what’s wrong. It’s called the negativity bias—a survival mechanism. But survival mode isn't your spiritual home.
You’ve outgrown panic living. Now it's time to retrain your awareness toward gratitude as power.
Gratitude isn’t fluff. It’s focus. And what you focus on, expands.
🌸 Gratitude Softens the Heart
Gratitude doesn’t mean you love the pain. It means you’re willing to see with love through the pain.
🕊️ It breaks the cycle.
🕊️ It transforms resistance into surrender.
🕊️ It opens the door and says,
“Love, you can have your way in me.”
🧘🏾♀️ Today’s Practice:
Catch the complaint before it escapes your lips.
Pause and say:
“Love is the way I walk in gratitude.”
Let it shift your posture.
Let it realign your thinking.
Let it rewire your heart.
📝 Journal Prompt:
What am I resisting in my life right now?
What have I been complaining about instead of blessing?
Where can I invite love in, today?
Write it down. Be honest. Then forgive it.
💬 Affirmation for ACIM Lesson 195
“Love is the only path I walk. I lay down my complaints and pick up my peace. Gratitude opens the door for miracles—and I’m walking through.”
We don’t need to fix our lives. We need to love it as it is—so it can transform from the inside out.
Because when we stop fighting the moment, we start flowing with the healing that was waiting all along.
We can’t hate our lives and heal it too. So, let's choose again. Choose love. Choose gratitude.
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